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Summer news: Shirley Ranck, GA 2023, Joy Journey, more

Summer news: Shirley Ranck, GA 2023, Joy Journey, more

 

Continental Unitarian Universalist Women & Religion (UUWR) is a network of UU women's organizations and individuals, dedicated to freeing ourselves, others, and the Earth from traditional, historical, and contemporary oppressive and patriarchal systems.‍

‍Blessed Summer, ‍ ‍!

 

Rev. Dr. Shirley A. Ranck (1930-2023)

From Melinda Morris Perrin:

In memoriam:  It is with great sadness that I pass along this information.  The Rev. Shirley Ann Ranck, the godmother of the UU women’s spirituality movement and author of the curriculum, “Cakes for the Queen of Heaven” joined the Heavenly Sisters, appropriately on Mother’s Day, May 14, 2023. She was 92. Shirley was a woman who dared, a great friend to those who knew her, and an inspiration to generations who followed. Quite literally, she changed my life.

 

From Gretchen Ohmann:

Cakes changed my life as well. I'd taken the course and was part of a wonderful group of women in South Bend, Indiana who continued to gather after Cakes, and who are still my sisters. I had the great honor of serving with Shirley when we were co-conveners of UUWR together for a few years. She mentored me through multiple types of situations along the way, and was always so gracious, decisive and kind. I had the opportunity to help with publication of the revised Cakes in 2007 and 2008. We began selling Cakes online, and that was the beginning of the Store we have now.

 

We've talked with so many women who have had transformative Cakes experiences. Let us know if you'd like to share your story.

 

Her family has said they'll consider whether to hold a memorial service sometime later. UUWR did display a small poster of Shirley at our exhibit hall booth. Jerrie Hildebrand of CUUPS made sure she was named at their Summer Solstice ritual. The staff group preparing the annual memorial list didn't hear about Shirley's passing in time to include her in the official materials. However, Rev. Susan Frederick Gray did read Shirley's name during Service of the Living Tradition, at the end of the list along with a couple of other people who had passed recently. They will all be included in the memorial materials during GA 2024, which will be 100% virtual.

 

Links to some of Shirley's sermons

 

Online obituary with address to send condolences.

 

Memorial poster (22MB file, PDF)


Upcoming Events‍

2023 UU Women's Connection in Illinois
2023 UU Women's Connection Spring retreat in Illinois

General Assembly in Pittsburgh PA

Our first day of the Exhibit Hall was busy and exhausting! Pauline and I drove to Pittsburgh Monday, spent all day Tuesday and part of Wednesday morning setting up the booth, and then chatted with folks all afternoon. We sold out of 3 different items by Thursday, and the interest was already high.

 

Alice Carnes brought quilts from UU Womenspirit that included many of the recent t-shirts from their events, plus some chocolates to give away. Alice says: "Greetings from UUA General Assembly. I'm with Gretchen Ohmann in the Women & Religion booth. We are standing in front of Anne Freels gorgeous UUWomenspirit quilt. Gretchen & co worker Pauline staffing the table and greeting conference attendees. Carole Eagleheart's music displayed with tech in place to hear her beautiful voice. Rev Dr Shirley Ranck who authored the curriculum Cakes for the Queen of Heaven honored with a photo... Shirley passed away recently. To read her lovely obit and for more info about Women & Religion go to https://www.uuwr.org. All of UUWomenspirit events are listed on the Women & Religion calendar. Thanks to Gretchen for promoting UUWomenspirit."

 

Kimberlee Carlson brought the elegant clay chalices that people at GA love. People seemed to like the jewelry and art we brought, and were eager to talk about books and curricula, women's groups and retreats.

 

Heather Gehron-Rice told us she had some newsletters from Joseph Priestley District UUWR that needed a home, and I was so excited to hear this, I nearly vibrated through the floor! What will we do with these? We'll scan and add them to our website archives, then carry them on to Meadville-Lombard to add to the HEResies Collection.

Antoinette Scully from UU Women's Federation says they're looking to hear stories from women who have been involved in the UUWF over the years. The organization already has their "official" herstory in the HEResies archive, but Antoinette says they are really interested in the personal stories of the women who have been there making it happen all along the way. Email Antoinette at uuwf@uuwf.org.‍

We invited Rev. Ann Keeler Evans to share her new Peacemaker's Tarot deck -- she's designed it to remove the hierarchy, racism and sexism in traditional decks. Ann loved giving readings for GA-goers. Ann is on the right in this photo, Rev. Kimberlee Carlson (who made the chalices) is at left.

 

Winners of the 6 gift bags we raffled off are: Jenna Zeidler, Courtney Sinha, Kathryn Alexander, Kris Ersland, Rev. Christin Green, and Margaret Schmidt. They're from all over the US, including Massachusetts, Virginia, Illinois and Washington state. Their gifts are in the mail!

 

International Women's Convocation was in the booth on the other side of the curtain from us. Since we weren't directly next-door, once in a while we'd pop our heads through the curtain to check in, and made sure to refer attendees to the others' booths all week.

People receiving the 6 gift bags we raffled off are: Jenna Zeidler, Courtney Sinha, Kathryn Alexander, Kris Ersland, Rev. Christin Green, and Margaret Schmidt. They're from all over the US, including Massachusetts, Virginia, Illinois and Washington state.

And, best of all, Pauline has agreed to join the UUWR Core Group (Board)!

 

-- Gretchen


Joy Journey part 1

A new ongoing column from Pauline Jackson (BougainvilleaBloom.com)

 

In November 2022 I finally escaped an abusive relationship, I had been trying to leave for the previous 3 years. In order to survive and escape that relationship I lost a lot of myself. I became angry and resentful. My health greatly suffered. I didn't recognize the person I was anymore.  Through it all I knew I wanted to feel joy. I wanted to find happiness. I needed it.

 

It took time to adjust to the changes in my life but my first realization was that removing myself from things that drain me of peace was the first step in finding the happiness I was looking for. My nervous system began to regulate and I was no longer constantly on guard, waiting for the next betrayal or abuse. I had relearned what peace was. It was a feeling I hadn't experienced in so long that I had forgotten what it was like.

 

In March my mother threw me the most beautiful birthday party. I turned 40 years old. In the 10 years I stayed with my abuser I was never truly celebrated. Nothing was about me. On the rare occasion something was done for me it was in response to some pain inflicted upon me. All my celebrations were attempts to get me to remain in a situation I didn't want and to keep me willing to continue enduring disrespect I didn't deserve. This party was a true celebration of me. It was only about me and for me. I was centered in that celebration and there was no alterior motive.

 

Through that celebration I learned that I can find joy and happiness without paying the price of pain and heart ache. That people I love, love me without hurtful requirements. There was no song and dance needed. Being the good, authentic person I am is enough. I am enough. I learned that if you want happiness you need to go where you are loved. I needed to inhabit the places where happiness grows and thrives.  That was a major turning point in my life. I had found my joy and I knew where to look for more.

 

Since then I have been on my Joy Journey.  I've followed my heart to places I never thought I could go. The universe has opened doors I never imagined. I have renewed my faith in myself and in the people around me who want to see me thrive. I want to share my journey with anyone who wants to come along with me. Happiness is possible. There is so much more to this journey. I can't wait to share more of my travels.

 

Pauline Jackson‍


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We open the circle...‍

... with a thought from Rev. Shirley Ranck's "A Statement of Feminist Theology" from the first session of Cakes:‍

Perhaps the most important religious task of the 21st century will be learning to take pluralism seriously. It is necessary for each of us to begin to see our own tradition as one among many and to understand that no one tradition has the whole truth. Such pluralism cuts across all the old boundaries of race and nationality and gender. In the words of Luisa Teish, Priestess of Oshun in the Yoruba Lucumi Tradition:
I will not wear
your narrow racial jackets
as the blood of many nations
runs sweetly through my veins.



We welcome all those who identify as women, expansively defined as anyone who feels that they belong in this space, including those who are nonbinary or agender.


Unitarian Universalist Women & Religion

A UUA Related Organization
c/o Co-Convener Gretchen Ohmann
P.O. Box 1021
Benton Harbor, MI 49023-1021
info@uuwr.org